Thanksgiving can be a source of stress, not just joy. Whether you’re navigating complex family dynamics, tackling the traditional meal, or simply trying to enjoy an extra day off, the holiday often demands a survival strategy. The staff of The Verge shares their tested methods for keeping your sanity intact during the festivities.
Master the Meal: Food as a Strategic Tool
One effective approach is overwhelming generosity. As commerce writer Brandt Ranj suggests, bringing a massive, decadent dish like a triple-cheese macaroni and cheese can create goodwill. The key is indulgence—think once-a-year splurges. Alternatively, embrace shortcuts: canned pumpkin is a perfectly acceptable substitute for homemade, as many reviewers at The Verge have learned.
For those who loathe cooking, there’s no shame in pre-made options or boxed mixes. And if you’re serious about efficiency, consider meal kits like Blue Apron. Allison Johnson, senior reviewer, found them invaluable: they provide pre-portioned ingredients and step-by-step instructions, making the process far less daunting.
Finally, invest in labor-saving tools. Emma Roth, news writer, swears by a KitchenAid Stand Mixer for cookies, pies, and even meatballs. A reliable mixer can cut prep time dramatically.
Defuse Tension: Distraction and Boundaries
Family gatherings often mean navigating uncomfortable conversations. The Verge staff recommends distraction techniques. Antonio G. Di Benedetto, reviewer, suggests Love Letter, a fast-paced card game that keeps people engaged without demanding deep emotional investment.
However, sometimes the best strategy is to disengage entirely. Ursa Wright, editor of Decoder, advocates for cutting ties with toxic family members. If financial independence allows, prioritize your mental health by spending the holidays with supportive loved ones.
Tech-Enabled Sanity: Charging and Documentation
Modern tools can also aid survival. Todd Haselton, deputy editor, relies on the Ku Xiu Qi 2.2 foldable charging station to keep devices powered up, eliminating one source of travel stress. And if social awkwardness is a concern, hiding behind a camera can be effective. As Di Benedetto notes, being the family photographer provides an excuse to drift in and out of conversations, avoiding unwanted confrontations.
The Simple Escape: Prioritizing Self-Care
Sometimes, the most effective strategy is simply to remove yourself. Jay Peters, senior reporter, emphasizes the benefits of taking a walk. Fresh air, exercise, and a hot drink can provide a much-needed break from the chaos.
The holidays are not worth sacrificing your well-being. If you need space, take it. If you need to set boundaries, enforce them.
Ultimately, surviving Thanksgiving is about pragmatism. Whether through culinary dominance, strategic distraction, or calculated disengagement, the key is to prioritize your own sanity.
